wedding lighting

Why did we do it? Why did we put so much time and effort into a simple lighting system? Does a wedding reception really need flowers in beautiful boxes surrounding two tone poles supporting the Bistro lights? Do you really need flickering lanterns on the poles? Why? Is it because we sometimes push the envelope too far? Yes, it is. We almost always go way too far. We have an issue with self-worth, need complimented continuously. Therapy could probably save us a lot of money. Maybe we could pay therapists to compliment us?